Literature Reference: Now you are thirty and have not yet met the court, how can you double the precious jade in a short moment? In the past, the Duke's son married a noble lady, and the Duke observed the rites of the uncle while the lady held the ceremonial basket. The rituals of returning bows ended here, and the purity of the Guanju transformation remained untainted. Now you are to marry far away and serve the bright sacrifices, how can you not strive to be close to the duckweed and artemisia? These words are all to be written and carried, and then the parting sleeves can be touched. Source from 'Going to Hangzhou' by Yuan Zhen.